21 Ways to Always Keep Her Satisfied In the Bedroom

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 21 Ways to Always Keep Her Satisfied In the Bedroom

Bringing heat to the bedroom is as much about your words as your actions. Before you turn the lights down, consult the last crib sheet you’ll ever need.

Life doesn’t get much better than when a naked, satisfied woman is sleeping in your bed.

Men think sex was great if they had an orgasm and their partner seemed happy, but women set the bar much higher. For Women, great sex means it felt good, it didn’t hurt, you cared about our orgasm, and we felt a connection to you.

Big difference, right? So we asked our trusted sexperts for their favorite intimacy-boosting strategies. Start here for a night neither of you will ever forget.

1. Step up the finger foreplay

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Use the finger vibrator to stroke the vulva, tease the entrance to her vagina, slip your fingers inside, and touch her G-spot, all while working on her clitoral area with your mouth. (For a step-by-step breakdown of how to bring her to orgasm with oral sex, click here to check out How to Pleasure a Woman

2. Share Your Origin Story

When a friend asks, “How’d you meet?” be quick to jump in. “Hearing your mate reflect on what it was like to meet you can be very intimate,” 

So be honest and end on a high note—say, by describing the exact moment you knew you were hooked.

3. Take the Bait

When she asks, “How does this dress look on me?” Yes, she’s fishing for a compliment, “Respond by elaborating on the truth.” Tell her how great she looks, and then share it on Instagram and Facebook. Think to-the-point praise (“My girlfriend. She’s superhot.”) or self-deprecating hashtags (#ImNotWorthy).

4. Kiss Her Just Because

If you kiss or cuddle her only as a precursor to sex, she’ll see these displays as tools you’re using to seduce her, explains Adult Luxury's owner. And she may be right.

For many women, and even many men, it’s important that demonstrations of affection not be limited to foreplay,” she adds. So linger on that goodbye kiss in the morning or that neck massage while she’s driving.

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Bonus points for post-boink, pre-snoring affection—it gives you a unique opportunity to shore up your bond with her.

In a trusted study, partners who spent more time kissing, cuddling, and talking after a romp reported greater satisfaction in the sack and with their relationship overall.

5. Stream Porn She’ll Actually Like

Redefine what you consider a chick flick: Studios such as Dane Jones (billed as “sensually explicit creative erotica”) and Nubile Films (“capturing the essence of sensuality”) are changing porn for the better with videos that emphasize intimate acts of foreplay and teasing, says Adult Luxury's owner.

And unlike old-school videos, they depict typical-looking women actually enjoying consensual, healthy sex with their partners. MakeLoveNotPorn is another great, couples-friendly resource.

6. Take It Out Of Fifth Gear

“I can’t emphasize this point enough,” says Adult Luxury's owner. “Women take a much longer time than men do—up to 20 minutes—to generate enough bloodflow to their genitals and produce enough lubrication for sex to feel pleasurable.”

So if you’re touching her clitoris in any way, busting out a new sex toy, stroking her G-spot, or inserting a finger anywhere before she’s ready for it, you’re just grinding her gears.

“Women aren’t able to experience the full potential of pleasure if you move too quickly—in fact, it could actually be painful,” she says. By using couples sex toys for foreplay you will easily get her in the mood. And you can take your time. Playing with her breast on the nipples with a vibrator, while kissing her neck. Then move downwards to her paradise..and stimilate her clitoris with a clitoris couples vibe to get the juices flowing. Don't forget the lube!

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7. Be a Clitoral Connoisseur

Most guys know the little nubbin above her vagina, but much more lies beneath the surface.

“The clitoris is huge,” It’s 3 to 4 inches long and arcs like a wishbone underneath the lips.

Spread the love: Gently rub around her clitoris and press lightly on her labia. You’re doing it right if her skin swells and turns red.

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Then tease the nub. When you’re ready to enter, aim for the front wall of her vagina where the top of her clitoris lies.

(Some researchers believe the famed G'Spot is actually the top of the hidden clitoris.) Doggy-style sex can help you reach it.

If you prefer missionary, elevate her butt on a pillow—your pelvises will rub together to stimulate the gland gently from the outside as you tickle it inside.

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8. Dont Be So Polite

When she tells you to lighten up, that’s her way of saying you’re being too polite. So tease her, but in a nonhostile way—especially when you’re just dating.

For instance, inject playful innuendo (“Can you stop checking out my ass? I’m not a piece of meat!”).

That’s called affiliative, or bonding, humor, the kind linked to romantic happiness, says a clinical psychologist.

9. Talk It Out—Immediately

But when you start feeling flooded, say you need a break—even if that means sleeping on it and reengaging in the morning, says Adult Luxury's owner. 

You have to negotiate the things about each other that you find challenging. That way you’ll both feel comfortable being totally authentic, allowing your relationship to evolve.”

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11. Bring Up the Rear

More women than ever are saying that they’ve enjoyed anal sex, says Adult Luxury's Owner.

And here’s another reason to make anal your ally: A recent study by Herbenick found that 94 percent of women who’d had anal sex during their last encounter reached orgasm.

What’s more, that number was higher than orgasm rates reported by women who’d had vaginal or oral sex (but no backdoor blitz).

If you’re certain your partner is up for it, just remember these two key pieces of advice: Take it very slow the first time, and use plenty of lube. Click here to shop anal toys for her.

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12. Come Together

Simultaneous orgasms are about as rare as snow leopard sightings. But they’re worth pursuing.

“Experiencing that pleasure, where you both lose control at the same time, actually builds up bonding hormones such as oxytocin and prolactin.

To save your O until she’s ready for it, use your breath wisely. Just when you’re on the edge, slow down and take two or three deep breaths.

As you exhale, squeeze your pubococcygeus muscle (the one you’d use to stop urine flow). This will bring you back from the precipice—otherwise, you may tense up and ejaculate.

Related: How to Last Longer In Bed

Practice when you masturbate—aim to bring your arousal from a 9.5 down to a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10, she suggests.

13. Bring the Gym to Your Bedroom

One thing worth trying: Pilates. Exercises that strengthen your lower abs translate to greater thrust.

And if she joins you, even better—lower-ab strength helps her grip your penis harder and experience more-intense orgasms, says Adult Luxury's owner. Make it a daily session.

New research from the University of Mississippi showed that for every 30-minute increase in moderate to vigorous physical activity per day, men were 43 percent less likely to have erectile dysfunction. If workouts shred your gut, even better!

In one study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, men who shed 2 inches from their waist raised testosterone levels by an average of 58 ng/dl. (Normal T levels range from 300 to 1,000 ng/dl.)

14. Share Your Netflix Queues

Don’t freak: This isn’t the stuff Ed Snowden warned about. For couples, sharing is all upside.

It’s a subtle way of conveying commitment: It says “I trust you enough to reveal my daily life,” says Adult Luxury's owner.

15. Plan Ahead—Way Ahead 

If she says she's not sure where things are going, preempt this conversation by filling your calendar with fun stuff you like to do together.

Enthusiasm is key. If you’re just casual, keep the talk light: Make it a game (“If we were to pick up and go on vacation right now, where would we go?”)

16. Inject the Relationship With a Shot Of Adrenaline

Plan side-by-side activities that let you two connect—say, a weekend whitewater rafting trip. Or keep it simple and play hooky from work to check out a rock climbing gym.

“In that excitement, you excite each other,” 

17. Be a Tease

You love it when she makes a beeline for your package, right? Well, she doesn’t want the same directness.

So start by massaging her neck, shoulders, and back. Then kiss her neck and earlobes while stroking her chest, stomach, and inner thighs. A great ad on to anyone's game play is a magic sex wand. You can use it to massage her and later on move it to paradise...known as the king of giving clitoris orgasms. Click here to shop the best magic sex wands

Do this for 30 minutes—or until she’s begging for sex.

It pays off in the long term: One Canadian study linked caressing to better sexual satisfaction and a stronger relationship. 

18. Make a Sex Date

Sure, spur-of-the-moment nookie is hot. However, it’s a myth that sex should always be spontaneous.

“Life is busy, and things can prevent you from being physically intimate with your partner,” says Adult Luxury's owner. “Planning ahead can build anticipation and excitement.”

Save your sex session on a shared calendar—bonus points if you label it with something that harkens back to one of your hottest previous romps.

Then, as the time approaches, amp up the excitement with texts.

“Start subtle with something like ‘I can’t wait to spend time with you later. . .’ and build up,” she says.

Progress to something like “I’ll be home at 7:30. Will you be naked?”

19. Turn Fantasies Into Nonfiction

Time to tell her about your BJ fixation. “Assuming that your partner should just ‘know’ what you prefer sexually is a lovely romantic idea that just happens to be ridiculous,”

In fact, simply asking her what she wants in bed could turn her on more than ever.

Need some conversation starters? A study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that 82 percent of women fantasize about having sex in an unusual place; just over half have fantasized about being tied up during sex, while 42 percent have thought about tying up their partner.

Thirty-two percent have fantasized about being photographed or filmed during sex. Invest in a smartphone tripod.

20. Praise Her Like a Man

One of Adult Luxury’s clients recently described how a former flame would compliment her curves, strength, and sexual response—all that her body had to offer.

“He loved her lower back and the ‘decadent’ way it curved into her ass. He loved touching, licking, and resting his head there, and he named it ‘The Courtyard.’”

Her confidence soared, and with it so did her libido. Get the message?

21. Share Your Toys

Play nice with her—very nice. New research from Canada shows that using couples toys and vibrators designed for use by both partners during sex, helps men feel more-intense penile sensations and a greater sense of intimacy. Click here to shop couples vibrators.

Here’s how to use it: She inserts one side into her vagina. It has a vibrating motor inside that you’ll feel with your penis, plus a motor outside that rests on her clitoris. Then have at it!

Add lube if you need to, and try all your favorite positions—the toy is designed to stay put, says Adult Luxury's Owner.

The C shape of our couples vibrators enables other creative deployments—for instance, it could be handheld during massage or wrapped around your penis during oral or a hand job, says Adult Luxury's owner. Toys make great gifts, right.

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