How Often Most Couples Have Sex

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According to Science This Is How Often Most Couples Have Sex
 
When it comes to sex, people tend to fabricate the numbers. Penis size gets inflated, the number of lifetime partners is edited up or down, and how long a sex session lasts can be way exaggerated. (Five hours, really?)
But when it comes to how often couples have sex, science actually has an accurate idea. The average adult gets some action 54 times a year—or about once a week, according to a 2017 study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. Another study published in 2015 linked the frequency of sex to happiness.
Researchers writing in Social Psychological and Personality Science found that couples who have sex at least once a week are happier with their relationship than those who get it on less often.
That second study also found that having sex one or more times a week does not affect your well-being any further, so it’s not like hitting the sheets all the time is going to make you OD on happy hormones. “Couples often make the mistake of shooting for some number in order to feel okay about their sex life,” The truth is that whatever is comfortable for you and your partner is your normal. You don’t need to be having sex any more or less than you’d like.”
When you stop focusing on the numbers, you realize that a lot of factors affect how often a couple gets it on, a professor and the director of family studies says your ages, values, lifestyle, innate sex drive, health, and, most of all, the quality of your relationship.
“In almost all long-term relationships, something called ‘sexual satiation’ sets in around year two or three,“Sexual satiation is the been there/done that element of coupledom. It’s the human tendency to become bored; it’s not a fault, and it’s nothing to be creeped out about or ashamed of.”
For what it's worth, a third study broke down sexual frequency by age. People under 30 have sex 112 times a year on average (over twice a week), but that frequency declines to 86 times a year among 30-39 year-olds, 69 times annually for those aged 40-49, and roughly 52 times yearly for couples in their fifties and beyond, according to research conducted at the Kinsey Institute in Indiana.
And before you freak out about a few weeks of missed opportunities between the sheets, remember: The goal of a relationship is happiness, not sex. “Sex is important to the degree that it makes a couple happy,” And researchers would agree that relationship happiness leads to better sex, not vice versa.”
So if you and your partner aren’t in sync when it comes to how often you rock the mattress, the first line of assessment and treatment is to focus on your relationship. Talk about what’s going on, open up about your needs and fantasies, and don’t judge each other. “Couples need verbal and psychological intimacy before they can have sexual intimacy,”
If you and your partner communicated and want to spice things up in the bedroom here is a list of our top selling couples toys:

1:Unite-Us™ Couples Remote Vibrator

Unite-Us™ Couples Remote Vibrator
Unite-Us™ Couples Remote Vibrator For Duel Satisfaction
Set Remote-Controlled Luxury Unite-Us™ Couples Remote Vibrator, exclusive luxury edition range.
Let the games commence! Spice up foreplay with this elegant and sexy toy.
Perfect for solo and/or couple’s play, let your lover take control with the wireless remote.
This ultra-high-powered, whisper-quiet couples toy has been designed with your mutual pleasure in mind.
Wear it during lovemaking to unlock new, undiscovered sensations for you and your partner, using the hand-held remote control to explore each of the nine fully adjustable vibration modes together.
The luxury couples massager has 10m long distance control to bring additional features to your intimate experience, while its discreet, delicately embossed curves fit seamlessly with your body for the ultimate experience in comfort and excitement.
Use it on your partner to tease her, or tease him by slipping it into your vagina or panties while he operates the vibrator from a distance with the remote control.
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2.V-Vibe® : Vibrating Panties Vibrator

2.V-Vibe® : Vibrating Panties Vibrator
The V-Vibe® Vibrating Panties Vibrator will literally rock your body all day and night.
V-Vibe® aka the ‘sneaky’ couples sex toy. As the name implies, you can sneak this unique toy anywhere. Play with the remote toy anywhere, anytime! Insert the V-Vibe into your favorite pair of underwear....and let the games begin! Give your man the remote and power to satisfy you from a distance.
The V-Vibe® Vibrating Panties Vibrator can be used solo, or for secret fun insert them into your favourite panties and take erotic play to a new level. It can be universally attached to any underwear, so you can turn your fanciest pair of undies into a pair of vibrating fancy undies. The two-piece kit comes with a remote control and a 9-function vibrator, specially designed to hit your clitoris at all the right angles. The contoured design has ridges for more stimulation, and wings (like a maxi pad) help attach the device to the underwear of your choosing.
The Vibrating Panties Vibe is made out of premium medical grade silicon, and is FDA approved. It has an ergonomic design with CE safety certification and RoHS authentication. V-Vibe® Vibrating Panties is a luxury sex toy for women or for couples to enjoy together.
With the Vibrating Panties Vibe ergonomically designed whisper-quiet vibrator, you are able to experience the ultimate in teasing foreplay. Using a remote control, your partner is able to navigate through 9 differing pulsating patterns as well as a variety of intensity levels - taking you from slow and steady to quick and wild in a matter of seconds.
With twice the power of its predecessor and boasting 9 vibrating modes, this pebble vibrator enhances play with strong vibrations and pleases every sense...
Touch: With a velvet-smooth touch, this ergonomic vibrator fits in the palm of your (or your lover's) hand perfectly, and embraces every natural curve for optimum stimulation and arousal. Explore all 9 speeds and patterns and experiment with the wide and narrow surfaces to discover what feels best for you.
See: Simple, non-intimidating and petite, this vibe is perfect for those who are new to using sex toys alone or with a partner. Its pebble-like styling makes it non-intrusive for all sorts of solo and couples play, while the easy-to-use buttons ensure operation is a doddle.
Hear: The one area of this vibe that hasn't been amped up, the Vibrating Panties Vibe features a super-quiet motor that never goes above 50dB to ensure playtime is discreet and as private as you want it to be.
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3.King Cock Luxury Couples Ring

3.King Cock Luxury Couples Ring
Turn your penis into a king cock to satisfy her like never before!
The King Cock luxury ring is made out of premium grade silicon, has a remote and 9 Vibration modes. Perfect for Couples to enjoy together especially if she is one of the ladies that climax thru clit orgasms.
It also puts some extra vibrations thru the penis into the vagina to increase g-spot orgasms for her. The possibilities is endless with this premium sex toy.
You can also use it by hand to hold agains her nipples or clit to spice things up and increase the mood.
Excellent sex toy for foreplay, for him to last longer and hold a erection. 
With all above functions, it is understandable why it was the best selling multi purpose cock ring the past few months. Satisfy her properly with the help of the King Cock Luxury Ring! Click here to shop

4.Zephyros Cyclone™ Remote Controlled Couples Sex Toy

Best sucking couples remote sex toy
Believe it when we say this spesific toy is the champion orgasm giver and satisfyer. It is also better in design , more bendable and flexible to adjust to all body types and has a remote control to make it easier to operate.
Relax , get comfortable and effortlessly change the vibration modes and patterns with the push of the remote button without the effort to change posision or bent forward to change it manually.
The remote control makes it comfortable for couples to use . Now he can join in the fun, be in control of your orgasms. Let the games begin, spice things up in the bedroom or on vacation. This unique design is also super silent, a discreet sex toy when you have house mates or kids in the house.
This vibrator uses orgasmic suction technology to simulate a sucking sensation, encircling your sweet spot with intense stimulation.
"Sucking and pulsing against the clitoris at one side, The opposite slips into the vagina and comes to rest alongside the g-spot and sensitive surrounding tissue, ranging from soft and gentle to fast and hard."
It's waterproof so you can use it for up to 30 mins while taking a shower or relaxing in the tub.
This beautiful creation comes with 10 vibration modes and 10 suction modes, including multiple power levels and pulsating patterns!
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5.Mr. Satisfyer

Mr. Satisfyer couples sex toy

What’s so special about it? Ohhhhh boy, a lot of things. Get this – the shaft on this thing you can rotate inside your partner to make them scream from pleasure!  Use it in her pleasure hole with the flat part against her clit while you penetrate her, or rotate it around to give her a internal orgasms and external stimulation of the anus.

Alternatively rotate it for some anal play while the other half of the vibe stimulates the vigina. Use it for couples fun or exiting solo play. I bet you haven’t found a dick that can do that yet, eh? Plus, it buzzes two areas with 9 different ways AT THE SAME TIME. Vibrations for solo players or vibrations for both partners at the same time!

Mr. Satisfyer can also be used for foreplay. For many couples, erotic foreplay can be as exciting as intercourse itself. The benefit of foreplay before sex is increased arousal, which leads both partners to desire penetrative intercourse. Use the vibe over her breast or to tease her clit. Alternatively hold the vibe in the palm of your hand while you stroke your partners penis.

On top of all this, your partner can control the strength and vibration pattern and speed. Oh, and it’s waterproof, so you can play in the tub. AND it runs for a mind-blowing 3 hours. Phew. I’m just gonna say it now: throw out all your other toys, Mr. Satisfyer is here! Click here to shop

6.The Magic Rabbit Silent Panty VibratorThe Magic Rabbit Silent Panty VibratorUltimate Couples Fun Toy!

Meet The Magic Rabbit Silent Panty Vibrator, a cheeky remote control clitoral vibrator with 9 rumbly yet discreet vibration modes and rabbit ears for orgasmic clitoris stimilation.

The Magic Rabbit Panty Vibrator is equipped with a magnetic clip, allowing you to turn almost any pair of plain ol' pants into delightful vibrating knickers without the stress that it will fall out.

With an ultra-sexy and satisfying design and a smooth silicone finish, The Magic Rabbit Panty Vibrator ads a sexy secret to your day to day routine, and no one but you (and your partner, if you invite them along) will know you're playing.

The Magic Rabbit Panty Vibrator comes with a remote control, for couples foreplay tease yourself (or be teased) hands-free. Whether you’re into the idea of handing the controls to your partner or just drawing out a long foreplay solo sesh on a random night alone, wearable underwear vibes are def worth adding to your sex-toy rotation.

The Magic Rabbit Panty Vibrator is a silent vibrator for discreet play when ever and where ever you like.

Just like sex, you should start off slow and gentle to help set the mood and give your body time to adjust.

The Magic Rabbit Panty Vibrator is USB rechargeable for easy travels and compatible with all USB outlets. It is USB fast charging and once recharged it runs for up to 2 hours on single charge, with advanced travel savety settings keeping The Magic Rabbit Panty Vibrator ready and waiting until you press start.

Dab The Magic Rabbit Panty Vibrator with water-based lubricant before use to get the best pleasure from your toy. Click here to shop.

7. Zephyros™ Unisex (Pink) with Remote

 

Zephyros™ Unisex (Pink) with RemoteRevolutionary suction technology

The Zephyros™ clit vibrator comes with 10 vibration modes and 10 suction modes, including multiple power levels and pulsating patterns with a remote control. One button in the base controls the vibration, and the other button handles the suction. Simply press the button to start playing and switch different modes. USB rechargeable.Just like sex, you should start off slow and gentle to help set the mood and give your body time to adjust.

Unique 2 in 1 vibrator​ Multifunction​

Zephyros™Clitoris & G- Spot Stimulator is 2 toys in one –– and ready to give you so many amazing experiences, too! Pamper your clitoris with all the many kinds of sucking it loves. That's right. Or, on a moment's whim turn this sex toy around and go inside for the perfectly targeted love. Or go back to the sucking. Oh, what a night!

Waterproof Design

The vibrator is fully waterproof so you can use it while taking a shower or relaxing in the tub.The watertight design makes the massager easy to care for and clean for long-lasting enjoyment.

High Quality Silicone

The sucking vibrator is made primarily from soft and durable silicone, a hypoallergenic and easy to clean material. The stimulator is rechargeable and can run up to 60 minutes fully charged. A USB cable is included that plugs below the clitoral stimulator.

Features & details

Clitoral stimulator with suction and 10 vibration patterns to those sensitive nerve endings. Sucking and pulsing against the clitoris at one side, the opposite slips into the vagina and comes to rest alongside the g-spot and sensitive surrounding tissue, ranging from soft and gentle to fast and hard.

The slender and firm silicone shaft makes it easy to explore your sugar walls and target your hungry-for-action G-spot. Made of body-safe silicone, it is super-soft, hygienic,nonporous. and that slightly phallic tip is ready to make love to your sweet G!

Zephyros™ Sucking Vibrator is conveniently USB rechargeable, for elevated ecstasy wherever you want it, powering up fully in about 1.5 hours. A full charge will run pressure waves and vibration for up to 60 continuous minutes.

This unique vibrator uses orgasmic suction to simulate a sucking sensation, encircling your clit and targeting it for intense stimulation. It is fully waterproof so you can use it while taking a shower or relaxing in the tub.

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8.Exotic Couples Panty Vibrator

Exotic Couples Panty VibratorExotic Couples Panty Vibrator :

Embark on an intense erotic encounter with the Adult Luxury's Vibrating Exotic Panties from our Premium Whistle Collection. Slip the exotic vibrator onto your pearl, then pass the control to your lover and let them pleasure you with the 12 speeds and 8 patterns.

Whisper-quiet and remote controlled, the panty vibrator offers utter discretion even on the strongest tier of sensation. Relax into bliss as your lover flicks through the settings from up to 12 meters away.

A small opening in the back of the case can fit the width of the USB cable for discreet charging.

Adult Luxury is a collection of luxurious sex toys expertly designed by top sex toy manufactures with only one thing in mind: ultimate sexual happiness.

Please note: While the vibrator is waterproof, the remote control is splashproof only and should be kept out of water.

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The dual-stimulation Sync offers great pleasure options for any couple looking to use toys together, designed with a slender neck so it can be worn during intercourse, with powerful rumbly vibrations and an adjustable fit that lets you stimulate the G-spot and clitoris with your preferred pressure level. Rotate and use the ridges for more pin-point vibration, if that's the way you like it. 

The WeJoy® Couples Pro Vibe has been updated with improved charging, battery and control button. The flat end is great for varying pressure and enjoying more diffused or pinpointed stimulation.

Use it on your partner to tease her, or tease him by slipping it into your vagina or panties while he operates the vibrator from a distance with the remote control. CLICK HERE TO SHOP

9.Diversion™ Couples Sucking Vibrator

Diversion™ Couples Sucking Vibrator

Diversion Couples Remote Control Vibrator

Clitoral Vibrator
BOMBEX Clitoral Vibrator
BOMBEX Clitoral Vibrator

Around 80 percent of women aren't able to climax from penetrative sex alone, this couple vibrator is designed to combat that and stimilate the clitoris.

Worn in the vagina, it curves around to hug your clitoris. It vibrates at different speeds and patterns, meaning that you can enjoy sex in pretty much any position while being assured clitoral stimulation.

Diversion Couples Remote Control Vibrator is a really easy way to make sure that your sex life is consistently satisfactory and ends in mutual climaxes. It's also remote controlled, so you can adjust it during sex without having to pause and look for the buttons – which would 

be a bit of a mood killer.

8 Frequency Vibration Modes

The Diversion Couples Remote Control Vibrator has 8 powerful different rhythmic vibration modes to choose from simply flick thru them with the remote till you find the one that gives you the best vibes! Click here to shop.

10.The Elegance Smart Wand.

Elegance 360° Rotating Vibrating Wand

Magic Sex Wand and Body Massager : The gift that keeps on giving powerful, insanely awesome orgasms.

The wand is the clit-whisperer. No matter who you are or what you like, almost every woman will agree that a wand vibrator is the best thing in the world.

The Elegance Smart Wand is the ultimate luxury sex wand. It is supremely versatile and can be used to spice things up in the bedroom or as a personal full body massager.

The Elegance Smart Sex Wand is one of the most sophisticated wands on the market worldwide and is of the highest quality. Embrace your most intimate parts with this high quality premium silicone massager. For more information : Click here

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