How Often Most Couples Have Sex

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According to Science This Is How Often Most Couples Have Sex
 
When it comes to sex, people tend to fabricate the numbers. Penis size gets inflated, the number of lifetime partners is edited up or down, and how long a sex session lasts can be way exaggerated. (Five hours, really?)
But when it comes to how often couples have sex, science actually has an accurate idea. The average adult gets some action 54 times a year—or about once a week, according to a 2017 study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. Another study published in 2015 linked the frequency of sex to happiness.
Researchers writing in Social Psychological and Personality Science found that couples who have sex at least once a week are happier with their relationship than those who get it on less often.
That second study also found that having sex one or more times a week does not affect your well-being any further, so it’s not like hitting the sheets all the time is going to make you OD on happy hormones. “Couples often make the mistake of shooting for some number in order to feel okay about their sex life,” The truth is that whatever is comfortable for you and your partner is your normal. You don’t need to be having sex any more or less than you’d like.”
When you stop focusing on the numbers, you realize that a lot of factors affect how often a couple gets it on, a professor and the director of family studies says your ages, values, lifestyle, innate sex drive, health, and, most of all, the quality of your relationship.
“In almost all long-term relationships, something called ‘sexual satiation’ sets in around year two or three,”
“Sexual satiation is the been there/done that element of coupledom. It’s the human tendency to become bored; it’s not a fault, and it’s nothing to be creeped out about or ashamed of.”
For what it's worth, a third study broke down sexual frequency by age. People under 30 have sex 112 times a year on average (over twice a week), but that frequency declines to 86 times a year among 30-39 year-olds, 69 times annually for those aged 40-49, and roughly 52 times yearly for couples in their fifties and beyond, according to research conducted at the Kinsey Institute in Indiana.
And before you freak out about a few weeks of missed opportunities between the sheets, remember: The goal of a relationship is happiness, not sex. “Sex is important to the degree that it makes a couple happy,” And researchers would agree that relationship happiness leads to better sex, not vice versa.”
So if you and your partner aren’t in sync when it comes to how often you rock the mattress, the first line of assessment and treatment is to focus on your relationship. Talk about what’s going on, open up about your needs and fantasies, and don’t judge each other. “Couples need verbal and psychological intimacy before they can have sexual intimacy,”
If you and your partner communicated and want to spice things up in the bedroom here is a list of our top selling couples toys:

1: We Vibe Together

We Vibe Together Couples remote operated sex toy
We Vibe Together Luxury Couples Massager
Set Remote-Controlled Luxury We Vibe Together Couples Massager, exclusive imited range.
Let the games commence! Spice up foreplay with this elegant and sexy toy.
Perfect for solo and/or couple’s play, let your lover take control with the wireless remote.
This ultra-high-powered, whisper-quiet couples toy has been designed with your mutual pleasure in mind.
Wear it during lovemaking to unlock new, undiscovered sensations for you and your partner, using the hand-held remote control to explore each of the nine fully adjustable vibration modes together.
The Luxury Couples massager has 10m long distance control to bring additional features to your intimate experience, while its discreet, delicately embossed curves fit seamlessly with your body for the ultimate experience in comfort and excitement.
Use it on your partner to tease her, or tease him by slipping it into your vagina or panties while he operates the vibrator from a distance with the remote control. Click here to shop

2.V-Vibe® : Vibrating Panties Vibrator

2.V-Vibe® : Vibrating Panties Vibrator
The V-Vibe® Vibrating Panties Vibrator will literally rock your body all day and night.
V-Vibe® aka the ‘sneaky’ couples sex toy. As the name implies, you can sneak this unique toy anywhere. Play with the remote toy anywhere, anytime! Insert the V-Vibe into your favorite pair of underwear....and let the games begin! Give your man the remote and power to satisfy you from a distance.
The V-Vibe® Vibrating Panties Vibrator can be used solo, or for secret fun insert them into your favourite panties and take erotic play to a new level. It can be universally attached to any underwear, so you can turn your fanciest pair of undies into a pair of vibrating fancy undies. The two-piece kit comes with a remote control and a 9-function vibrator, specially designed to hit your clitoris at all the right angles. The contoured design has ridges for more stimulation, and wings (like a maxi pad) help attach the device to the underwear of your choosing.
The Vibrating Panties Vibe is made out of premium medical grade silicon, and is FDA approved. It has an ergonomic design with CE safety certification and RoHS authentication. V-Vibe® Vibrating Panties is a luxury sex toy for women or for couples to enjoy together.
With the Vibrating Panties Vibe ergonomically designed whisper-quiet vibrator, you are able to experience the ultimate in teasing foreplay. Using a remote control, your partner is able to navigate through 9 differing pulsating patterns as well as a variety of intensity levels - taking you from slow and steady to quick and wild in a matter of seconds.
With twice the power of its predecessor and boasting 9 vibrating modes, this pebble vibrator enhances play with strong vibrations and pleases every sense...
Touch: With a velvet-smooth touch, this ergonomic vibrator fits in the palm of your (or your lover's) hand perfectly, and embraces every natural curve for optimum stimulation and arousal. Explore all 9 speeds and patterns and experiment with the wide and narrow surfaces to discover what feels best for you.
See: Simple, non-intimidating and petite, this vibe is perfect for those who are new to using sex toys alone or with a partner. Its pebble-like styling makes it non-intrusive for all sorts of solo and couples play, while the easy-to-use buttons ensure operation is a doddle.
Hear: The one area of this vibe that hasn't been amped up, the Vibrating Panties Vibe features a super-quiet motor that never goes above 50dB to ensure playtime is discreet and as private as you want it to be.
Best served with a happy helping of your favourite water-based lube from Adult Luxury online sex shop for slick slip and climactic results. Click here to shop

3.King Cock Luxury Couples Ring

3.King Cock Luxury Couples Ring
Turn your penis into a king cock to satisfy her like never before!
The King Cock luxury ring is made out of premium grade silicon, has a remote and 9 Vibration modes. Perfect for Couples to enjoy together especially if she is one of the ladies that climax thru clit orgasms.
It also puts some extra vibrations thru the penis into the vagina to increase g-spot orgasms for her. The possibilities is endless with this premium sex toy.
You can also use it by hand to hold agains her nipples or clit to spice things up and increase the mood.
Excellent sex toy for foreplay, for him to last longer and hold a erection. 
With all above functions, it is understandable why it was the best selling multi purpose cock ring the past few months. Satisfy her properly with the help of the King Cock Luxury Ring! Click here to shop

4.Zephyros Cyclone™ Remote Controlled Couples Sex Toy

Best sucking couples remote sex toy
Believe it when we say this spesific toy is the champion orgasm giver and satisfyer. It is also better in design , more bendable and flexible to adjust to all body types and has a remote control to make it easier to operate.
Relax , get comfortable and effortlessly change the vibration modes and patterns with the push of the remote button without the effort to change posision or bent forward to change it manually.
The remote control makes it comfortable for couples to use . Now he can join in the fun, be in control of your orgasms. Let the games begin, spice things up in the bedroom or on vacation. This unique design is also super silent, a discreet sex toy when you have house mates or kids in the house.
This vibrator uses orgasmic suction technology to simulate a sucking sensation, encircling your sweet spot with intense stimulation.
"Sucking and pulsing against the clitoris at one side, The opposite slips into the vagina and comes to rest alongside the g-spot and sensitive surrounding tissue, ranging from soft and gentle to fast and hard."
It's waterproof so you can use it for up to 30 mins while taking a shower or relaxing in the tub.
This beautiful creation comes with 10 vibration modes and 10 suction modes, including multiple power levels and pulsating patterns!
For women to enjoy or for couples looking too spice things up in the bedroom. Click here to shop

5.Mr. Satisfyer

Mr. Satisfyer couples sex toy

What’s so special about it? Ohhhhh boy, a lot of things. Get this – the shaft on this thing you can rotate inside your partner to make them scream from pleasure!  Use it in her pleasure hole with the flat part against her clit while you penetrate her, or rotate it around to give her a internal orgasms and external stimulation of the anus.

Alternatively rotate it for some anal play while the other half of the vibe stimulates the vigina. Use it for couples fun or exiting solo play. I bet you haven’t found a dick that can do that yet, eh? Plus, it buzzes two areas with 9 different ways AT THE SAME TIME. Vibrations for solo players or vibrations for both partners at the same time!

Mr. Satisfyer can also be used for foreplay. For many couples, erotic foreplay can be as exciting as intercourse itself. The benefit of foreplay before sex is increased arousal, which leads both partners to desire penetrative intercourse. Use the vibe over her breast or to tease her clit. Alternatively hold the vibe in the palm of your hand while you stroke your partners penis.

On top of all this, your partner can control the strength and vibration pattern and speed. Oh, and it’s waterproof, so you can play in the tub. AND it runs for a mind-blowing 3 hours. Phew. I’m just gonna say it now: throw out all your other toys, Mr. Satisfyer is here! Click here to shop

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